Becoming My Dream Girl: December 2015

Thursday, December 3, 2015

The Insecure Salesman

I just realized something. When some one tries to guilt you into purchasing their products, joining their business or giving them and what EVVA they have to offer the time of day, they don't believe in themselves and/or their products and they are counting on your insecurities to prosper.

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My Life Will Work for ME!

It's gone work for me. My life that is. Can't be like you even though what you're presenting looks great...on you. Part of my struggle has been me trying to be like everyone else and obtain success the way they have done it and feeling the pressure of not being able to obtain what it looks like they have. Or feeling the pressure of wanting to leave their methods behind and use my own and feeling guilty when I do and when what I do for me "doesn't work". Maybe that's why I attract people who want me to be like them and get mad when I'm not or "rebell" against their attempted control. Funny I don't have the success I want or is it. It was never intended for me to be anything other than me but my lack of trust for myself has caused a great disservice to me and the audience that is assigned to me.

What if I'm okay and have exactly what I need to survive just like every body else? Imagine how unstoppable I'd be if I connected to my own power source instead of connecting to yours. Hhhmmmm.

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Wednesday, December 2, 2015

I need some one who understands.

Today is just one of them days in my life where I wish I had someone in it who understood everything about me and was able to take me in their arms and hold me while I rested or cried or whatever I need comfort for. I have some things I need to say and I want to say it to the person who understands, not the person who will look at what I'm saying as me having a problem and judging me or attempting to find me a solution because I don't have a problem and I don't have need for a solution and I'm not making excuses and I need someone who understands that the world is tough for a 42 year old single orphan with a teenage son a master's degree no job no prospects and no readers for the only thing my heart has the courage to do and that's write. How am I suppose to make it like this.

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